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Control Your Cash

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We're afraid of conflict, so we will ignore, dismiss, or blow off handling money because we're so scared of conflict with our loved ones, partners, spouses, parents, banks, lenders, and investment institutions. Maybe we're intimidated and don't want to deal with that feeling.

Another reason we give up our power around money is that we're afraid of facing

responsibility and being a financial grownup. We worry that it'll be too much, that we'll make

mistakes, that somehow we'll mess it up. And sometimes, we wish for someone else to take care of us and save us from taking responsibility for ourselves.


Another way we give our power away around money is that we're afraid of what others will

think of us- if we make too much or too little- and we make decisions based on

others' opinions versus what's true for us. Another reason we give our power away around

money is because we're afraid of looking like a failure.


This is a fear of humiliation in front of our parents, our families, and our partners. I didn't follow through again. I couldn't make it work again. I'm always a disappointment. I'll never be good enough. I'm a bad bet. Another reason we give our power away around money is we're afraid of disempowering someone. If I make money, then I lose my relationship. So, if we're successful, we believe we might make things worse for someone we love. Sis is conscious, and sometimes, it is under the surface.


But we can explore how to correct this so you can allow more money into your life with coaching. The truth is, money is there—it's everywhere. We just aren't necessarily aware of it.

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